FREE ONLINE ADVICE

 

Below are the currently online FREE Information/Workshops/Education

 
 
Crucial Quick Links
Suicide
Cancer (pdf) / Cancer
Bullying
Runaways

YOU NEED TO PRINT AND USE THESE TO MAKE THE MOST OF THIS WEBSITE
Support Materials
(pdf downloads of worksheets you can use)

ACTION PLAN LINKS:
Understanding self questionaire
Action Planning Worksheet
The Action Plan

HOW TO CHANGE
MINIWORKSHOPS

Change a habit to be different


Healing from emotional trauma

Code of conduct

THE BEST OF THE BEST

Deepak Chopra
Tony Robbins
Joyce Meyer
The Love and Respect Conference
A Life God Rewards
The Heart of the Problem
Boundaries
(series of areas of your life)

Marianne Willamson
The One Minute Manager
Who Moved My Cheese


CAREER WORKSHOP
Skills questionaire
Career questions
Exploratory (worksheet)
Your skills cliff´s notes
Interview highlights
Interviewing

FOR ADULTS

Dating & Relationships

 

LINKS:

Healthy relationships
A good boyfriend
Men and dating
How to get the right girl
Female body language
Male body language

Body language flirting
Detecting lies
Dating Myths
Rejecting bad boys
Overcoming jealousy
Things that scare single men
How to love more by caring less



Marriage

LINKS:
What should I look for?
How to be married (pdf)
Stuff happy couples do
Rekindling your relationship
Dont cheat... Try this NOW instead of quiting!

Secrets about marriage
Would he cheat?

Read this book and watch the movie as a couple:
The Love Dare Fireproof

The Love and Respect Conference


Sex Education

LINKS:

Free Sex Education (written for men, but everyone should really know this stuff)

Stuff everyone should know about sexually transmitted diseases and infections

BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION


LINKS:


Values

30 Traits everyone should have

Flirting


Cheating

Lying

Abuse Page 1
Abuse Page 2

Abuse
in relationships
(pdf)

Code of conduct

Eye f*ing


 

 

 

SHUN THE BAD PEOPLE SO THEIR BAD BEHAVIORS WILL STOP


1 Corinthians 11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people. Revelation 21:8"...the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars –they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”

 

 

 

 




 


GRIEF AND LOSS


LINKS:
Philosophy of Hardships

Healing from emotional trauma


Suicide help and information


Change a habit and/or be different


FOR PARENTS


LINKS:

Discipling children


OTHER TOPICS
Regular Life Guidance (more to come soon)
Best places to live

Make your choices in EVERY aspect of your life wisely.



MORE WILL BE UPLOADED SOON!

READ HOW TO CHANGE
CNN Survey: Mental health stigmas are shifting (includes statistics mental illness and suicide)
 


 

 

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People are judged to be great because of the positive qualities they possess, not because of the absence of faults. So get positive!

¨When you connect to the silence within you, that is when you can make sense of the disturbance going on around you.¨ Stephen Richards

¨Life is a bowl of cherries. Some cherries are rotten while others are good; its your job to throw out the rotten ones and forget about them while you enjoy eating the ones that are good!¨ C. Joybell C.

peace assignment
Click to download these 2 files: 1) screensaver .jpg, 2) .pdf to print

Start DOING your Action Plan now. This website has resources to create a good plan, a way out of your current struggles, and the tools that you can use forever, in any situation to help improve your life and society as a whole. It is YOUR CHOICE what you want to and what you choose to do with the information. But it is TOTALLY up to YOU TO DO. We provide the information and the articles, but you have to put it into perspective for your own life and what you´re going through.

Do you want to keep struggling through your life? No, so it is certainly worth doing this research (especially because everything is step by step all in one place with easy to click help available!) and working a positive action plan for 3 months to see what good comes out of it versus another however many years like the last have been. DO something POSITIVE and CONSTRUCTIVE for the betterment of your life NOW!


MINIWORKSHOPS These are free stepbystep guides to changing any aspect of your life for the better! Change habits, emotions, and conduct to transform your entire life


Oprah´s free advice articles
¨If you concentrate on what you don¨t have, you will never, ever have enough, so be thankful for what you do have and you´ll end up having more.¨ Oprah Winfrey


THE BEST OF THE BEST

These are some of the best workshops I have ever done and some of my favorite mentors. This is not a complete list. I need to go through my old websites to get the page that has all of the workshops I recommend. That will be added soon.

About Deepak
About Tony
About Joyce

About Marianne

Daily Inspirations
(also look for meditation and affirmations on this site)


CAREER WORKSHOP

Career and Life Interviews (every conversation you ever have is an interview and you can use this information forever!)

This workshop costs $50/hr and it works!

Read the testimonials to find out what other clients have had to say about this workshop.


FOR ADULTS

Dating & Relationships

If you EVER know ANYTHING I don´t that I shoud know, especially about a man, whether it is good or bad, I definitely DO want to know and I NEED to be told. I offer that courtesy of a NEW CODE OF ETHICS to all as well :) If you ever find out or see or hear about someone lying, cheating, or abusing someone ANYONE, it is your DUTY to clear the air because VICTIMIZERS SHOULD NEVER BE PROTECTED!!!!

IF YOU WANT TO HAVE FUN WITH SOMEONE;
MAKE THEM FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES,
MAKE THEM FEEL SAFE,
MAKE THEM FEEL ADMIRED AND APPRECIATED,
SHOW THEM THAT YOU KNOW WHAT IS UNIQUE AND SPECIAL ABOUT THEM, DIFFERENT AND ABOVE ALL THE OTHERS OUT THERE.
AND THEN FOLLOW THROUGH THE NEXT DAY, AND THE NEXT DAY, AND THE NEXT. RINSE. REPEAT.

Dating Workshops
How to win a woman /
How to keep a man



Marriage

"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." Hebrews 13:35
1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 10 ... A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." 1 Corinthians 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God (your creator) with your bodies."



Sex Education

[ Social Responsibility ] “If a man seduces .. and sleeps with her, she shall be his wife." Exodus 22:1517
“I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman." Job 31:13
The ENTIRE books of Corinthians and pretty much Ephesians too are the BEST resource ever written on sex, dating, and relationships.

Who can I have sex with?

¨The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.¨ Proverbs 12:22



BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION

Clearly Defining Good and Bad Behaviors
¨But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.¨ Matthew 5:2729

SOME HIGHLIGHTS OF APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR
• Do NOT lie. It creates unneccesary drama. Always tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth, devoted, faithful and good to others (including service people, strangers, authority figures, kids, animals, ANYONE),
• People with commitment issues should not be in committed relationships,
• Don´t get married then cheat,
• There are two toilet seats put BOTH down and STOP fighting about something so stupid!
• Don´t run red lights and use a blinker so you won´t cause accidents,
• Take things positively and or think positively,
• Avoid drama
* Cause others to feel positive emotions by your words and behaviors,
• Don´;t protect people who do bad things,
• Don´t talk bad about people, it´s not nice,
• Feel some instinctual need to speak only positives about people behind their back or to their face, even for no reason,
• Honor others relationships,
• Respect your relationship and honor your partner in all your actions, the way you look at others, in your communications with others, especially in public, around friends or family or strangers,
• Don´t sweat the small stuff and it´s all small stuff, snap into a good mood for stupid reasons instead,
• Don´t follow others in doing wrong,
• Always put the cap back on the toothpaste so it doesn´t dry up,
• Dishes always need to be put in water so they don´t get crusty!


Stand UP for what is right. Fight FOR the victims. Do NOT cover up people´s sins to help make the world a worse place for us all to live. When you see a kid being abused, WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE BEING VICTIMIZED OR ABUSED, IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO HELP THAT PERSON. That is why you saw that happen in the first place! It is an opportunity for you to do the right thing, that if you do not act upon, you WILL be accountible for the injustice too.

When someone does something wrong, they CANNOT learn their lessons IF they are NOT shunned for their bad behavior. Ignoring bad behavior can NEVER fix bad behaviors in our world. It is that simple.

(Reference from www.appletonalliance.org) Regarding Romans 1:25 I play a lot of hide and seek with my kids. Sometimes I like to hide in the dark... when they come into the room I´m hiding in, they will turn the light on automatically. If the light never comes on, the darkness will help me HIDE. Sounds pretty simple... but here´s the deal; Some people do this with God. They hide from God, bad stuff from their past, lies they have never admitted to, and cruel things they have said or done. Eventually, THE LIGHT (JESUS) will outshine the darkness and these things will be revealed and their deeds will be exposed.

If you ALLOW people to victimize others you know, then you are just as guilty for that victimization. It IS YOURS and ALL OF OUR responsibility to help each other NOT HURT EACH OTHER. It IS YOUR BUSINESS because you KNOW it is happening! I may not have liked the message each time I have been told information I really wish wasn´t my reality, but I have indeed APPRECIATED THE TRUTH AS IT REALLY IS. With honesty, things work out for the best because the truth is the ONLY way and the truth sets us free.



GRIEF AND LOSS

Dealing With The Loss of a Loved One
Sadly, people die. But when they die, they no longer experience pain, so THAT is a GOOD thing for them. When you experience anger, bitterness, and wallow in your deep loss and grief rather than being happy for the person who is at peace, you detract from what that person wants for you. You NEED to find a path to healing and love for yourself here. I recommend that you go to a free healing group for people who have lost a loved one because you will meet other people like you, who are going through the exact same things you are, and you may even get many more best friends out of this experience.


EBITT Encouragement Services / Positives The Club



INFORMATION YOU NEED TO READ!
Notes 1
Notes 2
Notes 3
More to be uploaded soon!

FOR PARENTS

Parenting
This is an incomplete section. There is a lot more information but I haven¨t found it in my files yet. I just found this so I added it.


OTHER TOPICS

For PreTeens and Teenagers
Life Plan For PreTeens
(parental permission highly suggested)
¨... when during her youth men slept with her, caressed her virgin bosom and poured out their lust on her.¨ Ezekiel 23:79

A Real Life Plan That Everyone Can Follow Created From Statistics (for adults) [coming soon, NEED TO UPLOAD]

Make your choices in EVERY aspect of your life wisely.

LIVE A JOYFILLED LIFE
HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIPS,
A BETTER CAREER, BETTER SALARY
AND BETTER INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS

START IMPROVING YOUR LIFE TODAY
•••• AT WORK           •••• AT HOME           •••• IN RELATIONSHIPS
AND BEGIN LIVING BETTER TOMORROW!